What you ignore is what you accept

The best leader I ever worked for introduced themselves to every person in the building. Every time. And they used your name when they spoke to you, whether you were on the board or on the shop floor.

It sounds like a small thing. It wasn’t.

What it consistently communicated, without variation, was that the standard for how you treat people doesn’t change depending on who’s watching or who’s senior. That behaviour, repeated across every interaction in every location at every level, told the organisation something no values statement could. The culture wasn’t written on the wall. It was demonstrated in the workplace every single day.

That consistency is the mechanism. Not the outcome.

When I think about what a healthy culture actually produces, I’ll gravitate towards Timpson.

Most UK-based people know Timpson for its original services: key cutting and shoe repairs. They may have heard about their approach to hiring people leaving prison. Fewer know about the branch manager autonomy model: the deliberate decision to give people at the front line the freedom to try things without requiring permission or fearing the consequences of failure.

One branch manager, trained in watch repair, started offering the service at his branch. It worked. Timpson now repairs watches across their estate.

That didn’t happen because of a culture initiative. It happened because the environment was built in a way that enabled it. Trust extended downward. Failure is treated as information. Ideas belong to the people closest to the work. The leadership behaviours created the conditions. The innovation was just what grew in them.

I worked for a business that hired several people from a competitor in the same industry. Strong people, experienced, exactly what the business said it needed.

They didn’t stay.

What became clear fairly quickly was that they’d come from a high-trust environment where ideas were welcomed, and autonomy was expected. The new business didn’t operate that way. Ideas were noted and deferred. Autonomy was limited. The tension that followed wasn’t attitudinal. These people weren’t behaving badly. They were behaving consistently with what they’d been trained to expect, in a place that had trained them to expect something different.

They left. Not because they failed. Because the environment failed them.

Most businesses approach culture from the wrong end.

They define values in a boardroom, communicate them downward, and expect behaviours to follow. It rarely works because the sequence is backwards.

Behaviours come first. The values of an organisation are not what it says it believes. They are the aggregate of what its people actually do, day after day, in small decisions that nobody records. Those behaviours, repeated consistently over time, produce observable values. And those values, accumulated over the years, produce culture.

Culture isn’t built. It accumulates. The question is what it’s accumulating from.

Which brings you to the thing most culture conversations avoid.

What you ignore is what you accept. The behaviour that gets walked past becomes the new standard. The leader who holds the line on a quiet Tuesday, in a conversation that doesn’t matter strategically, is doing more culture work than any away day or values workshop ever produced.

What did you accept last week that you shouldn’t have?

Have a brilliant week!

Dave Rogers, The Business Explorer

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